If you have recently come out of a relationship where your ex confessed he or she had fallen out of love with you, you no doubt are feeling crushed, confused and miserable. We never want to hear words of rejection from our loved ones and even worse if the break up came swift and unexpectedly. At this moment in time it is normal to feel a deep sense of lose and vulnerability, but the good news is the opportunity to rekindle their love and build a new relationship is far from impossible.
There was a time, in the beginning of the relationship, where you made your ex fall in love with you. Your memory of that time might be blurry by now, perhaps deeply clouded by the problems of the present, but try to search far back into the past and remember who you were. The secret to making your ex fall in love with you is already there. People may change with time, but they don't change nearly as much as you think. Whether you realize it or not, you and your ex came into each others lives at a time when you both needed one another. It was a case of being at the right place at the right time.
As with how things are now, you need to realize that your ex left you for a reason. You may feel compelled to plea for forgiveness and woo your way back into their heart. However know there is danger in doing so. At this crucial period it is imperrative that you respect your ex's wishes and not force the issue of reconciliation upon them. They did not break up with you on a whim. They had strong and rational reasoning for breaking up with you and it is unlikely anything you say or do will change their mind.
With that said, despite their unwillingness to give you another chance, don't feel disheartened. As time has allowed uncertainty and detachment to build between you and your ex, it is also time that will help you make your ex fall in love with you again. Provided you follow some rules of love and construct your actions carefully.
The first which I already gave is simply to give them what they want. Now men and women might communicate this differently. Men are much more simplistic than women. They will flat out let you know what they want, but women however are quite the complex beings. For this is possibly the number one thing that screws it up for men. What you need to do is not only listen to what your ex is saying but also read between the lines and pay attention to what they are NOT saying. In the most simple example, if your ex wants a break, then give it to them. Do NOT keep calling, pleaing, trying to perusade them to take you back, it is TOO soon.
If you haven't spoken to your ex for a while, it is a good time to put your plan into action right now. The longer you wait, the more chance of letting outside interruptions get in the way. Remember in order for your ex to fall back in love with you, you need to be in the right place at the right time, just like you were the first time around.
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